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Benevolent Sexism

[ buh-nev-uh-luhnt sek-siz-uhm ]

noun

1. attitudes about women that seem positive in tone but nonetheless connote inferiority to men based on fragility, lack of competence, or need of help/protection

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"Despite Jessica's impeccable qualifications and proven track record, Michael exhibited benevolent sexism by denying her the promotion, arguing that it was with her best intentions in mind; she should be spared from the added responsibility at work as she is probably already busy at home."

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"Ms. Smith's actions displayed benevolent sexism as she denied the girls the opportunity to carry the chairs and solely relied on the 'strong boys' in the class."

Why does it
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Note from the Founder

Hey there! πŸ‘‹ I'm Samaira πŸ€“, a 17-year-old senior at Archbishop Mitty in San Jose, California πŸŒ‰. When I turned five, my parents gifted me a science kit πŸ§ͺ because they knew I loved bringing unique ideas to life. But they also warned me that science could be a boys' club, and I would face discrimination just because I'm a girl. I didn't fully grasp what they meant until I attended a science camp where there weren't many girls like me. Despite that, I didn't let it discourage me. However, things took a sour turn when I noticed I was always asked to set up or clean up experiments while the guys did the "important" stuff. They said it was because I was organized, like it was a compliment. But deep down, it hurt. I also ended up being the one recording data ✏️ because they thought I was neat and delicate, and in their own words, they didn't want my "pretty little hands" βœ‹ to get dirty. It's strange how compliments can sting so much πŸ˜–. They were being nice and caring, but it made me feel alone. It felt like they took away the fire and excitement I had for science ❌πŸ”₯.

 

I was lucky to grow up in a household where my parents believed I could do anything I put my heart to πŸ’—. When my dad introduced me to coding πŸ’» at age 6, I fell in love. But when I realized my friends weren't as passionate about it, I decided to change that. Little stubborn 6-year-old me wanted things her way. So I created a board game 🎲 to teach coding and show my friends how fun it could be. When I saw it changing their minds, I discovered my love for teaching and sharing what I created. I wanted to do it more and more, and my mom suggested I start holding workshops. At 7, I thought workshops were when you built things at Home Depot πŸͺ΅πŸ˜¬, but after getting my definition straight, I approached libraries. Unfortunately, the first four said "No.” πŸ™… They were nice about it, though. They said I was just a young girl and should focus on dolls and princesses, and that I shouldn't stress myself out. But it hurt. My idea of a young girl was someone who tried new things and followed my heart, but that didn't match theirs πŸ˜”.

 

People were being nice to me, looking out for me, but it hurt so much. I started thinking something was wrong with me. And even though I felt alone at that moment, deep down I wasn’t. According to a study by Stockton University, around two-thirds of girls are interested in STEM until fourth grade. But things like benevolent sexism become roadblocks 🚧 as they grow.

 

While I was lucky to find libraries πŸ“š that trusted me to hold workshops and had the constant support of my biggest cheerleaders, my mom and dad πŸ‘¨‍πŸ‘©‍πŸ‘¦, many young girls may not have that. When compliments start hurting them, and they think something's wrong with themselves, it leads to scary statistics like only 24% of people in STEM being women πŸ‘©‍πŸ’». When women aren't treated equally, we don't have the same opportunities. But in a world where technology is meant to accommodate society, shouldn't the people behind it reflect its users?

 

To make a change, we need to start conversations πŸ’¬ and educate πŸ“– ourselves on how we talk to young girls. That's where BenevoLENS πŸ” comes in: BenevoLENS is my Deep Learning powered web platform that helps us understand how benevolent sexism appears in our world 🌍. Just enter any sentence from any context, and in less than 7 seconds, with over 96% accuracy, you'll know whether there's benevolent sexismπŸ•΅οΈ‍♀️. It's not just for individuals seeking to educate themselves; our application extends to education itself πŸ‘©‍🏫, legislation πŸ‘©πŸ»‍βš–οΈ, workplace dynamics 🀝, media πŸŽ₯, and public discourse πŸ—£οΈ. It's a collective effort to eliminate gender-based biases πŸ’―.

 

Once we change how we approach conversations with young girls as a society, then we can truly see a brighter future πŸ’‘. Because we should never ever underestimate the power of the change that girls can bring πŸ’₯.

 

Because I continued my journey in STEM πŸ‘©‍πŸ”¬, I kept innovating and using science to create solutions. Recently, I developed OVision, a deep-learning platform to assist doctors in creating precision medicine plans for ovarian cancer patients 🧬. I won first in the state at the California State Science Fair πŸ₯‡ and ranked in the top πŸ”Ÿ nationwide at the 3M Young Scientists Challenge. I'm currently working with the ovarian cancer department at UCLA (Go Bruins 🐻!!) to develop it further.

 

So let's support girls, educate ourselves, and speak up when necessary. πŸ“£βš‘

 

With lots of love and power 🌈,

Samaira 🦸🏽‍♀️πŸ’ͺπŸ”‹

Deep Learning based

< 10 seconds 

quick

web platform

accessible

> 96% accurate

accurate

detection of benevolent sexism in any sentence contexts

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