Since when do compliments hurt? 
"But I am just looking out for her." "But I literally complimented her neatness." It's all BS, yes, bullshit, but also benevolent sexism. Join me as we have your not-so-typical conversation about sexism, a part you may have seen and heard but not quite recognized. Let's approach this sexism in an innovative way and revolutionize the future for those to come after us.